are you working hard to achieve your goals or find solutions to your problems? Do you plan and do and do an do, so the results come? They must eventually, right? And when they don't you wonder "Am I too stupid? Not as capable as others? Why is it no working? It must be me!"
So you are results-oriented and (when you are really honest) not really enjoying the process at all. Your focus is on results, results, results and when they do not come you are frustrated, frustrated, frustrated.
Let me remind you: All the miracles in this universe lie in the paradox. The harder you try to achieve/get something, the more you push it away. Oh boy!
That is the law of reversed effort or the backwards law as Alan Watts called it. We got it all wrong! We got everything backwards. Like in this quote in the header from Alan Watts - you wanna float in the water, you need to kick back and relax. If you start making an effort to stay afloat it becomes so much work and eventually you run out of...
Tomorrow Mars, the planet of energy and passion, willpower and drive, turns retrograde in Gemini. Mars Retrograde will lasts for about two and half months and ends on January 12, 2023.
“So what does that have to do with me and my personal life?” you might ask.
Well, it gives you an insight in how far certain energies are influencing you. It’s pretty accurate if you ask me, as it tells you WHAT is happening, HOW it is happening and WHERE it is happening in your life. I think this is pretty darn cool to know, as it tells me where to be more mindful or observant and it kinda also gives me an agenda when it comes to my personal development.
I do not believe in forcing anything (although I still fall into the trap of trying to force certain things). I believe in going with the flow. Going with the natural cycle of things. As I am a Ayurvedic consultant I was always prone to rather working with nature, with the seasons and not against them. Since I am training as a Human...
Exhausted from overachieving and people pleasing?
There is another way to live your life! A life of inspiration and fun!
Don't repell all the good that wants to come to you by stressing out to reach your goal or making it right for others all the time.
I had to find out the hard way - you don't have to!
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